Richard Alongi, LMFT
Therapist in California
Richard Alongi is a licensed marriage and family therapist who focuses on helping people facing addiction, relationship struggles, trauma, and issues with intimacy.
- Licensed inCalifornia
- License19896
- NPI 1609047216
- Experience36+ years
- LanguagesEnglish
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About Richard
Richard Alongi is a licensed marriage and family therapist who focuses on helping people facing addiction, relationship struggles, trauma, and issues with intimacy. He speaks plainly and offers steady support for people dealing with anxiety, depression, grief, and life transitions. His style is respectful and compassionate, and he aims to tailor sessions to each persons needs.
With 36 years of clinical experience in California, Richard draws on several therapy approaches to guide work in session.
Background and approach
He uses Attachment-Based Therapy to look at how early bonds shape present relationships and emotional patterns. He also relies on client-centered methods to build a nonjudgmental space where a persons goals lead the way. Emotionally-Focused Therapy and Imago ideas appear in his work when relationships and couple dynamics are central concerns.
Jungian perspectives inform deeper exploration of personal meaning, dreams, and recurring life themes when those topics feel relevant. He adapts tools to the practical problem at hand, whether that is coping with substance use, managing anger, or rebuilding confidence. Sessions emphasize honest conversation and concrete strategies.
Richard helps people identify patterns, set realistic goals, and develop skills to respond differently in stressful moments. He aims to be straightforward and compassionate while working side-by-side with the person who is seeking change. People can expect a calm, experienced clinician who combines insight-oriented work with practical steps.
Richard will tailor pace and approach based on the concerns brought to therapy and the preferences of the person in session.
Credentials
- LMFT (California)
- License 19896 · expires December 2027
- NPI
- 1609047216 · national provider identifier
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Focus areas and approaches
Everything Richard lists on their public professional profile, in their own terms.
- Addictions
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
- Intimacy-related issues
- Self esteem
- Stress, Anxiety
- Grief
- Anger management
- Career difficulties
- Depression
- Coping with life changes
- Coaching
- Compassion fatigue
- ADHD
- Abandonment
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Co-morbidity
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Control issues
- Dependent personality
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Fatherhood issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Women's issues
- Young adult issues
Approaches Richard names
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centered Therapy
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Imago Relationship Therapy
- Jungian Therapy
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Somatic Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
Naming an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each therapist lists and does not check training records.
Online support
Attachment work and relationship-focused care online
Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationship patterns influence feelings and behavior now. It helps people spot patterns of closeness, avoidance, or fear and try new ways of relating. Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes the person's own goals and experiences. The approach creates a supportive, nonjudgmental setting where the client sets the pace and the focus. Emotionally-Focused Therapy targets emotional responses in relationships and can be useful when attachment wounds or intimacy issues are central.Finding the right approach is part of therapy. Richard will collaborate with each person to decide whether attachment, emotionally focused, or client-centered work fits best. He tailors the mix based on your goals, comfort level, and what shows up in early sessions, and he checks in regularly to adjust the plan.
Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video sessions allow face-to-face conversation and visual cues, while phone meetings can work well when bandwidth is limited or a quieter check-in is needed. Live chat and text-based messaging make it easier to fit shorter reflections or coaching-style notes into a busy day. These options offer flexibility for scheduling and for how people prefer to engage in therapy.
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Frequently asked
What kinds of concerns does Richard address?
He works with issues such as addictions, relationship and intimacy challenges, trauma and abuse, anxiety, depression, grief, anger, self-esteem, and coping with life changes.
How would you describe his therapeutic style?
His approach blends Attachment-Based Therapy, client-centered care, and emotionally-focused techniques to create a respectful, collaborative environment focused on real-life changes.
How much experience does he bring to therapy?
Richard has 36 years of professional experience working with a wide range of concerns and life stages in California.
What are his credentials and where is he based?
He holds the LMFT credential and practices in California.
Which languages are supported in sessions?
Sessions are offered in English.
What session formats are available?
He offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different needs and schedules.
How are costs and payment handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with him?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.
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